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Siblings’ Triple Wedding: 52 Ancestors 2024 Prompt “Family Gathering”

 

Three Elliott Siblings Marry on Same Day
Two of the Spouses are Moseley Siblings

John William Moseley: 1859-1934 (Maternal First Cousin 4x Removed)
Mary J. Elliott: 1867-1912  (Cousin by marriage only)
Emma Ara Moseley: 1866-1953 (Maternal First Cousin 4x Removed)
James Franklin Elliott: 1859-1941 (Cousin by marriage only)
William B Elliott and Mary Rose Moore: Third Couple, Unrelated to this Tree

 

A cryptic news notice caught my eye as I was researching Emma Ara Moseley. The notice appeared in the November 11, 1884 issue of the Owensboro Messenger. It was just two columns over from the list of newly granted marriage licenses, which included the license issued to Emma and her future husband, James Franklin Elliott. The one-sentence-long news item read as follows:

“Two sons and a daughter of Mr. W. W. Elliott, of Vanover’s precinct, were married on one day last week, and it wasn’t a very good day for marriages in that family either.”

This was hardly the typical news report of a marriage in the 1880s. There were no congratulations to the happy couples and no praise for what fine young people they were, which comprised nearly universal marriage announcement verbiage. Instead, the little item seemed to imply the triple marriage was not a positive event!

I puzzled over the phrase “wasn’t a very good day for marriages in that family.” Were the three couples married on a family member’s wedding anniversary and that marriage had a tragic end? Did the date mark some other tragedy in the family’s history? Did it imply that the Elliotts didn’t approve of their children’s marriage partners? The possibilities are endless. If I had been one of those brides or grooms, I would have been very upset upon reading this news item. It has an insulting air to it.

So who were the three couples? The list of marriage licenses included the names of three Elliott family siblings: James Franklin Elliott, who married Emma Ara Moseley; W. B. (William Buck) Elliott, who married Mary Rose Moore; and Mary Josephine “Josie” Elliott, who married Emma Moseley’s brother John William Moseley. 


I have been unable to find actual marriage records for the three couples. I did find the marriage bond for W.B. Elliott and his bride, which was dated November 8. While the news item was published on Tuesday, November 11, it said the marriages took place on “one day last week”, so the actual wedding date seems to have been between November 8 and 10, 1884.


I expect the triple wedding prompted a large family gathering--not just of the extended Elliott family, but also of the Moseley family since two of their children were also involved in the nuptials. Emma and John William Moseley had six siblings and large numbers of aunts, uncles and cousins, many of whom lived in Vanover precinct where the weddings were held. The Elliott family appears to have been equally large. Given the novelty of a triple wedding of siblings, I’m sure quite a crowd came to the Elliott home to express their congratulations and to celebrate with the brides and grooms.

The three couples had long marriages that each produced several children. Despite the pessimistic tone of the news item, I would suggest that it was actually a very good day for marriages in the Elliott family!

 

Sources:

The Owensboro Messenger, Nov. 11, 1884. Accessed on Newspapers.com.

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