Maude Smith Douthitt Enters Work World Following Divorce and
Non-Payment of Child Support
Maude Underwood Smith: 1881-1967 (Maternal Grandaunt)
I was recently reading my grandmother-in-law Lorene Smith
Jandy’s memoir, and found an interesting passage on her half-sister Maude:
“The fifth child and second
daughter was Maude Underwood. She married Walter Douthitt
in the Owensboro vicinity and
he too became an alcoholic. They had three children--Grace,
Madge, and James Bryant…. A
friend notified my father that with Walter's drinking, Maud and the children
were near starvation and that she must get a divorce. My father strongly
disapproved of divorce but consented in order to save their family.”
Maude and Lorene’s father was Rev.
Willis Smith, a devout minister and missionary, so he was a fierce proponent of
the sanctity of marriage. If he lent his support to Maude seeking a divorce,
her situation must have been dire. I decided to do more research on Maude’s
life. I discovered that she became a working mother in an era when that was
much more difficult than now.
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| Maude Smith Douthitt in 1915 |
Maude Underwood Smith was born in
June 1881. I do not have the exact date of her birth as I have been unable to
find a birth record. Most of the census records list her birth year as between
1883 and 1885—I suspect she was shaving a few years off her age as many people
do. I relied upon the 1900 census when she was only nine years old, and which
asked for the month and year of each household member’s birth. Since her
parents provided the information, I feel it is the most likely to be accurate.
Maude’s mother was Rev. Smith’s
first wife, Margaret “Molly” Underwood Benton. Underwood was the maiden name of
Margaret’s mother, and was used as Maude’s middle name as well. Maude was the
fifth of Willis and Molly’s eleven children.
Maude grew up in the Owensboro
area of Kentucky. Her mother died when she was seventeen, and Rev. Smith
remarried a year later in 1899. Just a few months later, Maude married a local
man, James Walter Douthitt, on March 17, 1900, with her father performing the
ceremony in the family home. She was eighteen years old, and her husband was
twenty-one. The newspaper write-up of their wedding made their union sound
promising, stating:
“Mr. Douthitt is a teacher who
has achieved success in the common schools of Daviess County, is a young man of
most excellent character, and popular wherever known. The bride is pretty and
accomplished, and has many friends in Owensboro and Daviess County.”
Rev. Smith moved to the Oklahoma
Territory later in 1900, taking many of Maude’s siblings with him. The
newlyweds moved in with James’ parents on a farm in Daviess County, and, according to the 1900 census records, James
gave up teaching for farming.
Maude and James had two daughters
in the first two years of their marriage. Madge Lorene was born January 8,
1901, and Grace Bernadene was born February 26, 1902. They added a son, James
Bryan, to the family on October 1, 1908.
By this point, the marriage may
have already been breaking down. I cannot find the family on the 1910 census.
Lorene, Maude’s sister, recalled that Maude and James had moved to Indiana, but
I have found no evidence of this.
In March 1912, Maude filed for
divorce. Divorce was big news in that era due to its rarity, so the case was
covered by the local newspapers. The Owensboro Messenger wrote:
“It is stated that the parties
were married in Daviess County, March 10, 1900, and have lived together until
recently, when because of the intemperate habits of the defendant the plaintiff
was forced to abandon him; That for a long time he had failed and refused to
provide clothing and food for their three children and herself. Plaintiff
states that the defendant is a young man, aged thirty-three, able-bodied and
well-educated and amply able to provide for his family. She prays for temporary
alimony during the pendency of the suit in the sum of $25 per month, and suitable
provisions after final decree.”
Maude must have felt so desperate and
humiliated to be forced to air her problems before the entire community. How
had she been providing for her children in the previous months? Had she been
forced to beg for food from her in-laws and her siblings who still lived in the
area?
The judge did grant temporary
alimony as the divorce case dragged on, but Maude was forced to return to court
to beg that the order be enforced, as Walter was failing to make the ordered
payments.
The divorce was finalized on
September 13, 1912. The newspaper reported that Maude was “awarded the custody
of her three infant children. It was also adjudged that Douthitt was guilty of
contempt of court by not complying with the orders of the court in paying
temporary alimony heretofore adjudged against him. Judge Birkhead ordered his
immediate arrest with instructions that he be placed in the Daviess County jail
and there kept until he has paid Mrs. Douthitt the sum of $15 per month from April
1, 1912…Mrs. Douthitt was also given judgment for $500 permanent alimony.”
It is unclear whether Walter
Douthitt ever met his obligations to his wife or children. Maude next appears
in the newspaper attempting to rent the downstairs rooms of her house in
Owensboro to boarders for the sum of $4.00 per week.
This attempt to support her
children was apparently unsuccessful. A 1915 news article on the Smith family
having a family reunion stated that Maude and her children were living in the
Appalachian foothill community of Paintsville with her brother Eldred. They
left Paintsville shortly after the reunion. Lorene Smith Jandy’s memoir
reported that:
“My brothers Eldred and
Charlie, both still single, took Maud and her three children under their care and
returned to Melrose, New Mexico, to try again to make it. Like so many others, our family had had
to leave their homestead there because of prolonged drought. The homes could not be sold and
all had to be deserted. Apparently this second attempt to farm in Melrose also fizzled, and
Maud had to keep moving, eventually ending up in Denver, where she and the children found more
security.”
Lorene is referring to the period
her father was living in the New Mexico Territory. At least three of his sons,
Eldred, Charlie and Ernest, attempted to homestead there sometime before 1910.
Eldred and Charlie returned with Maude and children around 1915. When their
brother Frampton died suddenly in 1916, his obituary notes that Maude, Eldred
and Charlie traveled from their homes in Melrose, New Mexico.
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| Postcard of Melrose, New Mexico from about 1910 |
Maude’s son Jim Douthitt recalled
his time in New Mexico in a letter to Lorene Smith Jandy. The drought had
returned, and their homestead attempts were overtaken by duststorms:
“"I surely do remember our
stay at Melrose, including fences completely buried in sand blown against tumbleweeds, rattlesnakes
and jackrabbits! In Clovis we lived over a movie [house], and I remember a picture of Charlie
Chaplin and under it 'Ishkabibble, I should worry.'
From Jim’s account, it appears that
Maude and children had moved from Melrose to the larger town of Clovis. There
were probably few opportunities for employment for Maude in Clovis, so she moved
again, heading 450 miles north to Denver, Colorado. The 1920 census shows them
living in Denver. Maude, 37, is employed as a “forelady” in a candy store,
while her daughters Madge and Grace, 19 and 17, were working as stenographers.
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| Vintage candy tin from early years of Brecht's in Denver where Maude worked |
James, who was eleven in 1920,
recalled, “[I]n Denver mother worked for a candy factory, Brecht's at first,
then much later at Stauffer's. Then she worked at their (the Stauffer family’s)
home, taking care of their daughter and 2 nieces. When I went to seminary in 1930,
she moved with them to Chicago, and then to Kansas City.” The 1930 census corresponds
to Jim’s memory, showing Maude living in a rooming house in Denver and working
as a housekeeper.
While she may have worked for the
Stauffer family out of state around 1930, by 1933 Maude had returned to Colorado,
where she married the owner of a painting business, Luther A. Keigley. Maude
was 51, as was Luther. After years of struggle and manual labor, Maude was able
to return to keeping her own home and supporting her husband.
Maude’s daughter Grace moved to
California in the 1920s where she worked as a secretary. Perhaps that
influenced Maude and Luther to relocate there as well. They first settled in Red
Bluff along the Sacramento River in northern California, appearing on the 1940
census; Luther stated he was a merchant with his own business.
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| Vintage postcard of Lake Elsinore, about 1950. |
A few years later, the Keigleys retired,
moving to Lake Elsinore, California. They appear in the society columns in
their local paper, hosting Maude’s daughter, Grace, and her son James, now a
minister, and his wife and children. They also visited Maude’s brother and his
wife in San Bernardino County.
Sadly, Luther had little time to
enjoy retirement. He died June 22, 1946. However, Maude continued to live in
Lake Elsinore, enjoying visits from her children and relatives until her death
at age 86. She died in the city of Orange, on the coastal side of the mountains
(Lake Elsinore is on the opposite side of the Santa Ana range).

Maude’s life shows how women in
the early 1900s could be left in serious financial straits if they were widowed
or divorced. Maude went to work to support her children, moving from place to
place and job to job until her children were grown. While she probably could
have relied upon the support of some of her siblings to survive, she chose to
go out on her own and achieve independence. She kept her family together, and
raised her children to be successful, self-supporting adults. Maude’s work
ethic and dedication on the job were obvious from her achieving the position of
“forelady” at the candy manufacturer, and her employers’ subsequent decision to
employ her as their housekeeper and nanny. Maude earned the security she found in
her second marriage and retirement.
Sources:
“Maude Douthitt Granted Absolute
Divorce”. Owensboro Messenger Inquirer. Owensboro,
KY. Sep. 13, 1912. Accessed on Newspapers.com.
“Divorce Is Asked.” Owensboro Messenger. Owensboro, KY. Mar. 21, 1912.
Accessed on Newspapers.com.
“Maude Douthitt Granted Alimony.” Owensboro Messenger
Inquirer. Owensboro, KY. Sep. 13, 1912. Accessed on Newspapers.com.
James Frampton Smith Obituary. Owensboro
Messenger. Owensboro, KY. Jan. 25, 1916. Accessed on Newspapers.com.
Room Rental advertisement. Owensboro
Messenger Inquirer. Owensboro, KY. Nov. 19, 1913. Accessed on
Newspapers.com.
“Big Reunion”. Owensboro
Messenger Inquirer. Owensboro, KY. Jun. 18, 1915. Accessed on
Newspapers.com.
Dr. Willis Smith entertains
Keigleys. San Bernardino County Sun. San Bernardino, CA. Jun. 23, 1946. Accessed
on Newspapers.com.
“Children Visit Mrs. Keigley.”
Lake Elsinore Sun Tribune. Lake Elsinore, CA. May 15, 1952. Accessed on
Newspapers.com.
Family photos and memoir of Lorene
Smith Jandy.